Sunday, September 9, 2012

The Wonderful Memories of “Mangsher Jhol” at Sundays in a bong’s mundane life…


Today as I returned to my all-girls’ paid accommodation before lunchtime, the weather was hot and humid outside and I was feeling extremely unwashed and stinky. Moreover, I caught cold and having a little bit of sore throat so I decided that it is going to be my feeling –blue day from hereafter. But then I remembered that today is Sunday and my “home delivery” kaku will be serving chicken with rice as Sunday-special menu and this very thought instantly lit up my mind. Though what he serves at every Sunday is what can best be called as remnants of chicken with mandatory 1 piece of aloo, floating in insipid “Jhol” or broth but when we (i.e. all my mess-mates including me) put it into mouth with hot rice, it tastes like something out-of-this-world. All the girls here starve themselves off from Sunday morning to hog it up later during noon.

                                                                So this same thought led to me thinking the quintessential role “manghser jhol” has played to shape up the lives of Bengalis across the country or I can say beyond- boundaries during Sundays, over the years. Well, I can perfectly remember what it did to my sister and me when we were mere Childs. Our household is devoid of mutton for years for the sake of health fad. So in every Sunday morning, when Baba came from bazaar, declaring loudly the ample quantity of chicken he had brought so that it can cover up for both lunch and dinner for that day, with a hint of pride in his tone- it used to make me very happy.

While Didi was considerably big girl then (at least from my point of view), I later asked her what she used to think of eating chicken with rice during her childhood (and before I was born) at Sundays. She assured me by saying that she just felt the same and it was a mini celebration in the house on weekly basis by having steaming rice with chicken curry, followed by a glassful of thumbs-up for ma,baba and didi each.

 Anyways, looking back to my childhood days, when after much anticipation, ma served us with hot rice, followd by shukto (that was almost mandatory) daal, some form of bhaja and then “mangsher jhol”- cooked in simple, traditional Bengali gastronomy which our mothers-and-aunts habituated to cook for years with lots of onions, garlic, and grin chilies – it seemed like a masterpiece in itself in my otherwise bhat-machher jhol fed taste bud during weekdays. The chicken legs were and still are meant for us two sisters to eat. We have coaxed our parents to have the leg pieces many a times for a change but according to them those are the best parts of meat in the body of a chicken so the minors of the house deserve them. Such an unselfish gesture which only parents can offer because I am crazy about chicken legs – be it cooked in Biriyani or curry and I am very doubtful about my ability that whether I would be able share them with anybody- well even with my kids (err… maybe I should buy two chicken so everybody in the home can have one leg each)..
                                       Well, back to today- as I was having my stingy chicken-rice meal and it was raining outside, I was deeply pondering over the importance of “Robibarer mangsher jhol-bhat”( be it chicken or for the serious meat eaters -“only mutton” )in Bengali families and its effects on generations for years. It’s almost symbolic to other cult characteristics of Bengali way of life, like- “Mohisasurmordini” in Mohaloya , new clothes during Durgapujo, the wait for next issue of Anondomela, taking smells from the pages of our new set of books when we got promoted in the next class- hmm…Life is not that bad actually.

P.S. - As I don’t know how to cook so there is no way I can share the recipe of manghser jhol with appetizing photos here in the blog as it would have been the norm. But I promised to myself that whenever I learn cooking (hoping that would be soon. I mean I will try to make it happen soon or else it will be included in my next year resolution list) I will make this dish first and foremost along with finding out how to boil rice.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

3 lessons learnt by a "Titanic"ed buff..


Come Thursday and Indian fans will flock to the theaters surely to watch "Titanic" in 3D. I believe there is a whole generation in India who got their first lesson in love from this cult epic. From the forbidden excitement of making love to feel the agony of lost love- Titanic was the sole institution- the school- the bible, whatever one may name it for people like me who were in their adolescent when the movie got released in 1997. Ours was truly a "Titanic"ed gen.Followings are the 3things I learnt from Titanic -

  1. A kiss to remember : When Jack -n-Rose locked their lips, it felt like time stood still forever. I saw the movie for the first time with my mother in the cinema hall and when the scene came both of us cleared our respective throats and fidgeted a little ( may be we are the last generation who still feels uneasy in seeing intimate scenes on screen before parents! ) in our seats but amidst all these uneasiness, the image of lip-locked Jack-n-Rose on the deck, the sun was setting behind them,leaving the sky crimson red- etched into my mind forever. And there i felt the significance and beauty of sharing the first kiss with the person who deserves it truly (even if after that, we share our 2nd,3rd and then subsequent kisses with less worthy candidates accidentally or incidentally!!!)
2. Nudity in Cinema : Before that, i never imagined that someone can go au naturel on-screen. Well, but till then i had only seen Sridevi and Ravina Tandon dancing in a wet saree, shaking off their booties provocatively or Simi Grewal changing her unmentionables in " Mera naam Joker" or Zeenat Aman left very little to imagination in " Satyam Shivam Sundaram" ( as i was and am still a hindi movie buff ,and i had no hint beforehand that Hollywood can go such far ! ) Though i must say Kate Winslet looked so ethereally beautiful in that scene and throughout the movie, that even my puritan mother who doesn't approve such "inappropriate scenes" on screen, still recalls her praise fully.

3. My heart will go on : This iconic song had such impact on my mind ( and on millions of girls like me all over the country! ) that i took the pain to cram the lyrics and sing it proudly before my awestruck classmates. Before Titanic i was in no habit of listening to English songs leaving alone remembering their lyrics but after watching the movie, i promptly bought a pair of cassettes named "100 of all time hits" which contains songs and respective lyrics of 100 hit filmy songs from Hollywood the songs and it had this bird call by Celine Dion in it. So in a way, Titanic taught me how to sing the first ever English song of my life.

There are numerous other facts, experiences, memories i can fondly associate with the movie but I rest my case here. I guess in the history of world cinema, there were very few movies came which had been welcomed by the spectators world wide irrespective of their nationality, culture, language, level of education, social strata and so on. I had seen our own housemaid gone to cinema to watch Titanic and then discussing about it happily to us, to narrate her experience of seeing first ever English "pikchar" of her life, though she couldn't write her name in hindi, forget about english. I have read in Khaled Hosseini's book " A Thousands of Splendid Suns" that even in war-ravaged afghanistan , people flocked to cinema halls to see titanic dubbed in pushtu (?) or whatever is their national language and liked it very much though theirs is an orthodox society.
Here lies the beauty of Titanic. Even after 15 years, when it is going to release for the 2nd time (in 3D), i believe people will appreciate it again. It is as timeless as love.Though a section of cine-pundits or "intellectual movie-buff" found many a faults in the movie but again some says falling in love is also a mistake in itself.